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Day 24: Genesis 41 - 45 - The cycle of reconciliation


In the midst of Israel’s woes, Joseph sired two sons by Asenath, the daughter of Potipherah, Priest of On. It is sad that he had to take a Pagan wife.

His sons, Ephraim, meaning “fruitful or abundant”, and Manasseh or “causes me to forget”, were his greatest consolation in the loneliest years of his life. They defined an end and a beginning, a cutting off of his past and the blessedness of his future.

That is a pattern with God. He resolves our past before moving us on, as happened at the cross where a death preceded a new beginning.

The sons of Israel left for Egypt

Israel sent all his sons, bar Benjamin his last-born, who was a proxy for Joseph. Seth also substituted for Abel. Israel was protective of Rachel’s last son, his only consolation.

Hence two poles of tension tore at the periphery of the story. Joseph’s consolation lay in his sons, and Israel’s in his last born. Yet in truth, the path to consolation lay in each other.

That alludes to an important spiritual idea. We will all find our consolations, be it in marriage, family, work or whatever else we use to make up for the aches of our hearts. I suppose we have no real choice but to do so. Only God can heal the root cause.

Well the brothers got short shift from the Governor of Egypt, arguably one of the loftiest positions in the known world of his day. He spoke through an interpreter, but understood what they said and sensed the regret that haunted them over what they had done.

A picture of the Redeemer emerges 

Jesus knows our regrets and the holes that lurk in our hearts and minds. Nothing else can compensate for that. He also knows our “language”: who we are and how we think.

Joseph was brusque with them and had them held in ward for 3 days. That too has echoes of the 3 days that turned the tide of God’s wrath through the cross.

Then Joseph sent them back, with all their grain and their money restored, but he held back Simeon as a ransom for Benjamin, who he demanded to see as proof of their veracity.

Benjamin becomes the key

Benjamin, his substitute, was the price they would have to pay for reconciliation. Abraham paid a similar price by laying down the priceless consolation of the son of his old age, to be reconciled to the great God above.

It was tough, but necessary. Israel would never find closure as long as the truth about his past remained hidden behind his apparent consolation. Joseph had taken the steps needed for honest reconciliation and closure on their shared pains.

Reuben, who had spared Joseph, offered the life of his sons as surety for bringing back Simeon and Benjamin, but Israel was unmoved until Judah, the heir-apparent, intervened.

Joseph’s ordeal had primarily been a divine intervention to protect Judah and his seed, but Tamar’s intervention made his seed safe, so he took full responsibility for Benjamin. Israel then let go and resigned himself to the loss of his last hope.

They returned to Egypt

Joseph restored Simeon, accepted the gifts that they brought from their father, saw his younger and only true brother, and dined with the sons of Israel. He battled to compose himself and wept, as a lifetime of pains washed away.

The parallel to Jesus washing the disciples’ feet is revealed in Joseph providing water for the weary feet and sagging souls of his brothers. Reconciliation was inevitable.

In contrast to that, Jesus had no true brother in his darkest hour. He was the only son of Mary, but His siblings were of Mary and Joseph.

At the cross, He entrusted His only true family, Mary, to John. He died alone to make us His brethren and fellow heirs (Romans 8:17).

Then Joseph sent them back, once again with all their corn and all their money, but with one addition – his silver cup was hidden in Benjamin’s baggage.

The key is turned

When that was revealed, Benjamin was threatened with being detained in Egypt as a slave, Judah invoked the surety he had formerly pledged to his father. He asked to stay in his brother’s stead and also confessed their past follies.

True reconciliation to God demands true repentance. Laying down our own lives and yielding that to God as the only fitting response to the life once laid down for us.

Thus, as Joseph had once paid for them, Judah offered his life in compensation. There is no other way we can make up for what Jesus did when He bought us with a price, not to be His slaves, but to embrace Him and His love out of our free will.

It is finally too much for Joseph

I doubt if it is any less moving for Jesus, when the cycle of reconciliation is fulfilled in us. It all hinges on our choices and responses.

Joseph wept on their shoulders and they were fully reconciled. Even Pharaoh heard of his weeping and commanded Joseph to bring his family into Egypt. They would not have survived much longer as the drought still had 5 years to run.

As I write, my own land is in the severest drought on record, yet God’s hand is in it. The real issues for our land, are not about bread or bread alone, but truth. Our constitution is under threat and our freedom is at risk. The drought has helped to bring that to a head.

Thus, Joseph’s brethren returned with wagons, loads of gifts and Pharaoh’s assurance of a parcel of land, which would be their endowment for as long as they remained in Egypt. The land of Goshen, included the richest lands of Pithim and Ramses.

God always reserves space for His own, an island in the tides of life that will keep us until He becomes our only possession and our greatest inheritance.

What a powerful story of reconciliation. Yet, for all its romance it cannot compare to the greater love story that reconciled you and I to the Great God above us all.

(c) Peter Missing @ bethelstone.com